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« Reply #45 on: February 10, 2010, 06:52:13 PM » |
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I present my codoleances to Michelle, Purple, PeDe, Clover and Jane. It's so sad to loose our beloved, it takes time to recover. I wish you all courage and strength.  Zinzen |
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« Reply #45 on: February 10, 2010, 06:52:13 PM » |
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« Reply #46 on: February 10, 2010, 08:04:04 PM » |
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I have to come back and say thanks to everyone with all my heart, and Michelle, so sorry about your Grandmother and everything you had to go through.
Danishorphan, Clover expressed it well for me. I had a difficult relationship with my father but was beginning to get closer to him and then he died alone at the front of his house, thousands of miles far away from me ... Yes, it's very true what Clover said: grief takes many forms and it is an expression of the complexity and depth of a relationship, which when a person is gone, just completely spins you into a vortex.
I truly wish you all the best Danishorphan - I can only imagine how hard it must be.
Yes, thank you Purple. It was very hard when i was in my 20s, but now 30 years later i have learned to live with it.And I think i do it pretty well. I am happy with myself but never think about him. I just see how so very much we are so extremely different on every viewpoint. He is all the things I dont like and dont want, but yet, he is my father. I am so fake with him, fake as mary. Geta said it for me: we inherit our family. Clover is right too in that we grieve for what it could have been, but i have been there done that already.
i am sorry about your dad and the difficult relationship you had.
and sorry RO for my mistake. Sometimes keeping all this information straight and sharing with each avatar person is not easy, especially if you are relatively new to the board. |
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« Reply #47 on: February 23, 2010, 08:44:01 PM » |
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Zinzen, Elissa, Geta, danishorphan, purple, Clover, RO - -  - thank you so so much for your support and love. I really appreciate all your input and your courage to share your loss with me and everybody else. All of you have my deepest sympathies. Thank you and my thoughts are with you.  |
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« Reply #48 on: February 24, 2010, 04:56:04 AM » |
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« Reply #49 on: February 26, 2010, 04:31:45 AM » |
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Grief and loss all such sad issues. I've been through a fair bit and would swear the Pacific is due to the tears I've shed, but I always know others are no different. I've got bad depression (or would have if I didn't take my pink pills), and of all the things that I've been through, the chronic sickness of my child hits me the hardest. It simply kills me. But even on the darkest days, a little smile on her face makes it all worthwhile, and makes me love people on this board even more. We all have our problems and burdens, but I'm assuming most of us are adults, so it's our turn to give and receive love through giving.
I get so emotional when I have my strawberry champagne in the morning, I can tell..sorry about this rambling on...
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« Reply #50 on: February 26, 2010, 07:38:29 AM » |
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for you, Leesa
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« Reply #51 on: February 26, 2010, 01:35:31 PM » |
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Lessa I hope that things get better |
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« Reply #52 on: February 26, 2010, 09:44:04 PM » |
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for you, Leesa. Hopefully you will have more better days than worse days. the better days will far outnumber the lesser days. it seems like we are always facing obstacles in our lives.
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« Reply #53 on: February 27, 2010, 12:10:44 AM » |
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Thanks Holly, hanzo and danishorphan. It's a bumpy ride for most of us, isn't it. |
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« Reply #54 on: February 27, 2010, 01:48:01 AM » |
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Grief and loss all such sad issues. I've been through a fair bit and would swear the Pacific is due to the tears I've shed, but I always know others are no different. I've got bad depression (or would have if I didn't take my pink pills), and of all the things that I've been through, the chronic sickness of my child hits me the hardest. It simply kills me. But even on the darkest days, a little smile on her face makes it all worthwhile, and makes me love people on this board even more. We all have our problems and burdens, but I'm assuming most of us are adults, so it's our turn to give and receive love through giving.
I get so emotional when I have my strawberry champagne in the morning, I can tell..sorry about this rambling on...
Leesa, I am so sorry to hear about your little girl. I will keep your sweet little angel in my thoughts always. I understand why you feel the way you do. Again, I am very sorry about your situation. |
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« Reply #55 on: February 27, 2010, 02:47:12 AM » |
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« Reply #56 on: March 01, 2010, 07:37:21 AM » |
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Thanks, Michelle! |
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